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Back-Stabbed By My BFF

7 comments | June 29th, 2012

(story submitted anonymously, by a chestist)

I talked my husband into recommending my BFF for a job at his company, the best job she's ever had, and she got him fired. 

She stopped speaking to us after she got the job and began her own agenda.  We've just purchased a house and have a special needs child at home so our savings is all gone.  I have so much hurt, anger and hatred in my heart for her I can't sleep.  I just don't understand how someone that we helped out could be such a self centered, egotistical, selfish person. 

I've lost trust in everyone, and don't believe a word anyone says anymore.  I'm surprised that my husband has forgiven me for ever introducing her into our lives.  I just have to get this "off my chest".  {end story}

There's probably little that can hate on your happy more than the betrayal of a friend, unless that betrayal also hurts your husband and your family.  Not cool.  Have you ever been backstabeed like our writer?  have you ever done the backstabbing?  How'd you get past the hurt and sadness?

 

7 comments

  • Anonymous

    Posted on June 29, 2012

    That’s awful. What a bitch.

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  • Rita R.

    Posted on June 29, 2012

    Do you think she thinks she did something? I guess what I’m asking is if you think it’s possible that there’s another side of the coin. For your husband to lose his job and for you to lose your friend is a lot to deal with. I hope you’re doing okay.

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  • Becca

    Posted on June 29, 2012

    When I was 12, my BFFL called me one night and said we could no longer be friends because our teacher that I was a “bad influence”. It was like a huge void opened in my life, and I felt embarrassed, lonely, scared. Of course, I also had no one to turn to because suddenly I had no best friend.

    It hurts. It heals. Don’t carry hate or anger any longer than you need to, as it only affects you.

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  • Rachel

    Posted on June 29, 2012

    MY BFF took up with my former love whilst I was away on holiday. It urged me of my obsession with him and destroyed my trust. I can still feel the terrible shock of her telling me and the rage and grief. I really feel for you. The best ou can say is, it will pass, something better will come. God bless

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  • Sally

    Posted on June 29, 2012

    I CANNOT believe your story!
    All you can do is move on.
    Try not to focus on this ordeal for too long. She doesn’t deserve the right to suck more joy or time out of your life!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted on December 31, 2012

    oh gosh! such a b*tch!!! UNBELIEVABLE!! pls dont even waste your time thinking about her ..the most important thing is staying focused on your family…stay strong and rise above it !!

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