He Lied About Me

4 comments | September 25th, 2012

(by "Breezy", a 21 yo Chestist)

I think we can all agree, sometimes some people suck.  This story is one of those times:

A good friend of mine lied to his friends and the guy I've been dating about sleeping with me. I just want to know why. I don't understand. It really, really hurts me, and it makes me feel sick, used, and betrayed. {end story}

This ever happen to you…where someone, let alone a good friend, made up a story about you…somethingthat was so false and hurtful and left you wondering wny and WTF?  What happened?  How;d you deal with it?  How'd you get past it – or haven't you?

If you haven't, we say let it go.  it's doing nothing good for you.  But either way, share your story here, won't you?



  • Haley K.

    Posted on December 12, 2011

    When I was 16, a guy I thought was a friend did the same thing and told people he had “banged me”. I never understood why he did it or why he’d give up our friendship to make up a lie. His lie never became an issue for me besides with him. I don’t think anyone ever really believed him, it hurt me so much though.

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  • MT

    Posted on December 12, 2011

    Hey, Breezy, that sucks. Did you confront your friend? I’m not saying he has any real excuse, but if I were you I’d make him explain. Sometimes people do stupid, thoughtless, hurtful things and they do not realize the effect they will have on others. Tell him. maybe the next time he’ll think before he talks. I’m just saying…

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    • Eva@OOC

      Posted on December 12, 2011

      We agree with you, MT. Sometimes we have to teach people that their actions have consequences. It might also make you feel better, Breezy if you really let him know how you feel. Perhaps he feels badly or is just oblivious. No matter what, tell him how you feel. He should know, especially if you two are friends. We’re glad you told us. We know others can relate.

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  • Lisa P.

    Posted on December 12, 2011

    Did you confront him, call him on it? OMG. I would not take this well. You need to stand up for yourself.

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